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Me and this guy were on-and-off for about 3 years. It was a stupid relationship, where I was always unhappy and in the end.. got hurt. I gave they guy my heart and he broke it. That was about, 4 months ago. I found a new guy which is amazing, and hes perfect, alot better then the old one. All my friends keep asking me if iv fallen for him yet, but the problem is.. I don't know how to fall anymore ? The 1st guy broke up my heart.. I'm scared to let everyone in again. I understand that not every guys the same, and that I should trust the new one. Thats what everone says... but when you have had a broken heart its easier said then done. I just don't know how to [ like alot / love ] someone again. Im always worried its going to be like the last relationship. Start off wonderful and then end up being shity at the end, where I end up in tears... thanks.
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Well, if you haven't told the new guy that, I'd let him in. I know it's hard, but if you like him & whatever and you think he's perfect, I'd tell him what you've been through. It might be hard to trust him when he says "I won't do that." but if you like him, you'll trust him. I know how it feels to be scared of commitment & to think that everyone is lying to you about shit, but when you think about it, it seems kinda silly to protect yourself forever. Some guys are worth the risk. And besides, the guy who is worth your tears, won't make you cry. I didn't understand that quote at first, but I figured it out. The best I can tell you is to just sit him down & tell him what happened with your ex and I'm sure he'll understand that falling for him & developing feelings for him will take some time & you don't wanna jump right into things.
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