Question Posted Thursday December 14 2006, 8:01 pm
okay i am toooo worried aobut things like im afraid to dance at school with a guy im afraid to kiss this guy im afraid to talk to him and stuff like that what should i do???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? idanceinmyroom answered Thursday December 14 2006, 9:55 pm: well, this is definatly a feeling that i'm sure is familiar to many people..i for one have been there before..my advice to you would just be to find your comfort level with him..it is a process, you dont just wake up one day and find yourself in a relationship and everything is perfect and dandy...sometimes i wish it worked that way, but unfortunatly it doesnt...take the time to get to know him..just talk to him, and i promise that if you relax and let yourself go a little more each time, you will lose the "shyness" that you have..just take a breath when you feel the fear or anxiety of being near him coming on..let yourself dance, let yourself talk to him..i can assure that when you start to gain a little more confidence, you'll shine brighter than you ever thought you could..and he will definatly notice that..but you should do it for you and dont sweat the small stuff...i'm here for you if you need me <3 [ idanceinmyroom's advice column | Ask idanceinmyroom A Question ]
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