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My ex
So, there's this guy. I thought I really liked him, but I heard all this stuff. He likes other girls, other girls like him-thats the stuff I heard. I don't think that I can compete with those other girls and I don't know if I should give up. I'm always thinking though, even if he did like me I don't know if I'd want to be in a relationship or anything with him. I think I still care about my ex. Not like I would want to date him either, but it's almost like I don't really 'want' either of them but I can't pick which one to like. help!
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i think you seriously need to sit down alone and think about if you truely have feelings for this guy. i kno ive felt the same way about a guy before and it relle sucked cuz i heard that he liked other girls and other girls liked him too. but sometimes you just have to forget wat other people are saying and do what your heart wants you to do. and its natural to still care about or have feelings for your ex. i kno i still do but i dont want to date him either but i still care about him. its what happens when you care about someone or love someone, you cant just make those feelings go away.
everyone doubts themselves when it comes to guys. "those" girls probably are nothing compared to you. if your friends with this guy talk to him. find out the truth from him. not from other people. find out the facts from him. if your not get to know him. it will make everything muchh easier.
and maybe you do like this guy but not enough to date him. get to know him better. and then make your decision. maybe you still have feelings for your ex and your afraid to start liking someone else. loves tough.
but you always need to remember that confidence is key. i think you might need to stop thinking about this so much and just see what happens. your heart wont lie to you about how you feel. if hes right for you. you'll know. hope i helped :] oxxx Sam <33
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