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my friend's crush is crushing on me?!
heyy thesammysammys,
hi. i'm a guy and i'm eighteen. okay, let's being w/some background information...
there's this girl i met thru my friend. she found me on myspace and added me. then like as soon as i accepted she left me a comment. so we started talking thru there and i asked for her s/n. we chatted on there for a long time [two hours or so] and she asked me for my number. about two days later she calls me and we have a two hour phone conversation. nothing in particular, just talking. before i was about to hang up, she asked me to call her early in the morning to wake her up, so i did. [she's been asking me for these wake up calls since then, btw.]
the next day, my friend messages me saying 'are you trying to get w/_____ b/c you know that i like her, riiight?!' i don't really know my feelings toward her, she's cute and has a great personality, so i guess some feelings are there. i'm just not really sure what i should do about this, he's my friend but i have a strong feeling that this girl has feeling towards me. what should i do? i don't want to lose a friend, but i don't want to break a girl's heart. thesammysammys, i need your advice!
- somewhat confused in california.
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A: Dear Confused in California,
BROS BEFORE HOES!
i think, you don't really have a problem here because it doesn't sound like you actually have romantic feelings towards this girl. so there is no reason for you to even worry, your friend can like the girl, and the girl can like you.. but you don't like her.. so you aren't betraying your friend and you can't force yourself to like this girl just because she likes you. i think, you should just continue to be friends with both of them but if your guy friend isn't cool with that.. then you should drop the girl.
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