Question Posted Wednesday December 13 2006, 9:31 pm
Alright so, I really like this guy who is in two of my classes, and in some of my lunch periods. I always try to talk and flirt with him, or walk with him after class. Most of the time he flirts with me too (I guess i can kind of tell), but the problem is that he flirts with ALOT of other girls, and its really obvious. Its really annoying because its about every day that I see this happen, and i can tell that the girls are totally falling for it. Well, the quesiton is how can i figure out if i am accually just one of those girls that are falling for it, or if he accually likes me. I have to admit i'm not really outgoing so its not like i'll be able to say 'oh you wan't to hang out this weekend' or 'hey i like you' or anything around that area. Honestly, at this point i'm just really confused. Thanks :]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lola answered Thursday December 14 2006, 3:32 pm: Hey,
I've read your problem just as well as i read so many similar ones before. Its totally cool and simple. Listen ,these type of guys you see them everyday and everywhere in school, the club, the mall or wherever it would be. They just go fooling around, wasting type cause they are too bored with their lives, and when they find a girl who would respond to them, then they play with her feelings. Thats exactly what he's doing with you. I don't mean anything by what i am saying , but he doesn't really love you, with the true meaning of love, he's just wasting his time fooling around with you like how he does with every other girl, and you know that better than i do, cause you see it everyday. So let me give you a good piece of advice, he doesn't love you and he's gonna get serious in what you are trying to lead, cause he's just wasting time. So don't get yourself involved in something that your gonna regret at the end, so just stay away,or act as regular freinds, but honestly, dont try to work your way in a relationship, because there isn't even one. I understand that your confused and you don't know what your doing, but take my advice, and try to work on what i said.
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