Question Posted Wednesday December 13 2006, 8:19 pm
im a pushover.
When it comes to guys, especially ones I like.
For example, I ride this bus and whenever I'm on it ,guys are so mean to me.
They like take my stuff and make fun of me,
and its not just once ,its constantly.
Then if im with them alone, they are nice.
But other wise , they are mean and it makes me sad.
And i dont do anything about it, becuase I dont wanna be mean.
Usually, ill just be like " stop"
and the even worse part is, one of the kids.. i had sex with ![i know, dumb choice]
becuase i liked him
and to this day , he is still mean to me.
He wasnt mean to me back then though, like over the summer.
Now ,im sad becuase I like him
but i dont know what to do about being a pushover doormat.
Help please!
im in need of it :[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? prettyinpink16 answered Thursday December 14 2006, 4:09 pm: you should try to be a little more... meaner in a way. i know that sounds wrong but, their never going to stop if you dont. the same thing happened to me, and finally one day i started being meaner to them when they did that stuff, and when they were normal i would be nice to them. Eventually they stopped. Guys like girls that are more confident and stick pup for themselves, and no matter what age guys will usually be immature so i wouldnt worry about it that much. This one guys use to call me a wh*** and a slu* and all of these other things and one day i started talking to him and we became friends and it turned out he liked me and just wanted to show-off and get my attention. :D [ prettyinpink16's advice column | Ask prettyinpink16 A Question ]
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