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drunk fight
Hi ... I am a 30 yo female dating a 25 yo male ...
I have been dating my b/f for 4 months ... Last night I got drunk and started a fight with him and do not remember much. I remember taking all his clothes out of my closet and marching over to his house (he lives in the next bldg)and throwing them at him. When I woke up, his key (to my house) was on my dresser. I went over there this morning and he locked the door in my face. I have called him twice and left apologetic voicemails. Now what do I do? (I do not remember what the fight was about but I'm sure I started it - I'm a mean drunk)
He told me last week he thinks he's fallen in love w/ me. We haven't said I love you, but I know he really cares about me. He shows it more than I show him. I feel really, really bad and I told him in the voicemails I will stop drinking (and I really will!) I really want him to believe me ... but he won't even talk to me right now. I was thinking of just leaving him alone for a couple days.
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Write him a letter. Pour out your feelings and tell him how you feel about him. Very few people can just throw a letter away!
If he is in love with you then he is probably really hurting right now. Who knows what you may have said to him! That has to be scary for you too not knowing what went on.
I do hope you stick to your vow not to drink again. It can be tough to do and I hope you get help if necessary. That to may make him realize you are serious.
Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.
Start writing and then go put it under his door. :)
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