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lately me and my crush(kyle) have only been talking on the phone and like flirting at church and i really want him to ask me out or i want our friendship to have more in it but im just confused about what i really want and what he really wants, but the thing is, he is my best friends ex and they hate eachother now and my sister and her boyfriend which is kyle's best friend, they think that he doesnt like me anymore, and thats kyle's fault because the other day my sister asked him if he still likes me and he said no but he really does and he wont tell them the truth and i really want him to because they keep teasing me about liking him because hes 17 and im almost 14 and im getting sick of it because i know the truth and they dont and i tried to talk to him about telling them the truth and he wont do it. ive wanted to tell them the truth but i know they wont believe me and its really frustrating and i really want him to tell them the truth but i just dont know what to do about him. and i dont know if i can do anything.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? coconutcatastrophe answered Monday December 11 2006, 5:00 pm: well first off how do you know if hes lying? or maybe he does like you but he won't ask you out because he thinks you'll say no because he knows you're his ex-girlfriends best friend. i think you should just be patient and don't worry about it and if he really loves you he'll come to you, if not then he's not worth it. trust me, i've been through something like this and all of my worrying was definetly not worth the guy at all, so i just waited and said to myself "i'm going to let a guy come to me." and surprisingly it worked. you did all you can do. it's his turn. and if he really wants you in his life then he'll find a way to put you there. and if he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you anyway.
lovelygirl answered Monday December 11 2006, 4:59 pm: hi.
well i understand your sistuation i once meet this cute boy at the mall and i was only 12 and he was 16.
i told him i was 15 so he'd like me.
he ended up being the first person i kissed and made out with.
but he tried to take advintage of me.
if he likes you and he ask you out i say go for it..
but watch out for yourself..
and be careful what you do. [ lovelygirl's advice column | Ask lovelygirl A Question ]
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