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im more commited?
ok well im 16
male
and me and my gf have been going out for a while and she has let me know that she thinks that im a little more commitied then her and she thinks i like her more then she likes me
what dose this mean
should i be worried
please help
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It may mean she is feeling overwhelmed and needs some breathing room. She does not sound like she appreciates you or the amount of attention you are giving her. My advice is to be a bit less available and touchy-feely. This relationship needs room to breathe. Don't break-up, just be less intense. She could have been trying to tell you something else by her comment, but I don't want to make assumptions. Girls think out loud a lot more than guys do. We are great communicators, too great at times! In the future, the best way to clear up something a girl says is to ask her why she feels that way. Girls sometimes just want to tell you about a feeling, but are fishing for you to ask. Your girl may be afraid to come out and tell you to back off a little. Girls love a little mystery!
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Well, being a committed guy is a good thing. It actually shows maturity. Just don't get so committed that you can't enjoy your young life...
As for her saying that she thinks you like her more than she likes you may mean that she isn't as ready as you to advance in your relationship. It isn't necessarily something to worry about.
You say you've been going out for a while... how long is that? A few months? A year? If it's been a few months, don't worry. She may not know what she wants yet. If it's been a year... maybe then you should worry some.
Also, there are other factors to consider in how she feels. Such as, is she also 16, or younger than you? Has she went out with some other guy who may have hurt her feelings or broke her heart?
If you are too worried about it, talk to her about it. Ask her why she feels that way. Just don't nag her about it, because that could throw your relationship of kilter. However, you are both in this relationship and should be able to talk, share feelings, and be honest (always be honest!). And keep in mind that how she said she feels about you right now is her honest feelings... always respect her for that, and be sure you listen when she talks about what she thinks and feels. I hope that she gives you the same respect.
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