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annoying friend
I have dis friend she always annoys me.She messes wit ma hair.There was also this time wen i had somthing really embaressing happened to me wen she was with me.Then she tells everyone about it and she keeps repeating wat happened to me thinking its funny.Me and my other friend r getting really annoyed she is a totall cry baby to.My friend think everyone lyks her.Im trying so hard to be nice to her.What should i do?Should i just keep ignoring wat she says or should i say somthing?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you value your friendship with her at all, and if you think there's a chance it could improve, I would talk to her. How she reacts will really dictate how invested she is in the relationship, as well--if she's receptive to what you say, she values you more than if she blows you off or makes excuses.
If you can't ever see yourself being friends with her, but you want to end things nicely without having to confront her, gradually wean yourself from her. If she IMs you, for instance, answer her questions but nothing more. Don't initiate conversation. If she invites you somewhere, politely decline--you don't even have to give a reason.
But be prepared, in that case, for her to ask you what she did wrong--that's why it would be best if you can be honest with you.
After all, the worst that can happen is that she blows up and dismisses your friendship. If she's worth her salt, she won't do that.
Good luck, and be sensitive. There might be something in her life that she's having trouble dealing with--it's impossible to know. My advice? Be kind and be honest. Treat her the way you would want to be treated.
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if you're shy you probably dont want to say something, but you shouldnt just put up with that. i had a friend like that last year. You should just gradually stop doing things with her. if she asks you to do something, just tell her you can't or dont want to. eventually, she'll stop asking to do stuff with you. if thats what you want.
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