I had a long talk with a few of my friends about why so many people don't like me. I was confused because I really love myself and have a lot going for me.
We realized that I am too intimidating. People are worried about how I have control over myself and their lives or they think I am too good for them. I can see this as being true but I do not like it.
How do I become less intimidating? I am always going to be myself, but is there anything I can do other than just be nicer/compliment people?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? dulce8nina answered Monday December 4 2006, 12:50 am: if you like yourself the way you are never change for anybody! you have FRIENDS who love you and while you have that dont care if any of the other people like you or not because they are not gonna be the ones there for you when you need them.
although you can always get involved. join groups at school with different people,also when you see some kids whom uve never talked to say hi and smile.a smile always changes peoples aspects.this way people will start thinkin of you as a more friendly person and will probably even start telling others about how nice and cool you actually are.
hope all goes well<33 laura [ dulce8nina's advice column | Ask dulce8nina A Question ]
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