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Me, my boyfriend, and best friend
Hi I'm Sarah,I am 15 and I live in Texas.So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and a half now when my best friend tells me that she never stopped liking him from last year.What should I do?
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So basically, you're saying that she likes him as in has a crush on him?
Well first of all you should definatly talk to her about it. Make room for a nice long conversation, and try your hardest not to make her feel bad for her feelings. It is hard when you get close to someone who is already attached (especailly when they are attached to your best friend) and then you start to like him. Make sure to tell her you arent upset with her, and see what you can do to get her to really open up. If she knows that you arent mad at her she will be more willing to talk about her feelings.
I always tell my friends when we go through guy problems, that friends are your back bone, and if you have boys in your life, thats great but, friends are forever, no matter how much you love him.
So as long as she knows you feel that way (even if you disagree with what I just stated about the girls are forever, portray the fact that you love her and wont get upset) she wont feel as horrible as she probably does.
Once you know how she feels completely you can figure out what to do from there, but if you need more help, don't hesitate to ask.
Thanks for asking me your question, and I hope I gave you some good advice.
Lots of love from your friend,
Angie91
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