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He's homeschooled now and I miss him so much.
I became friends with this guy, Michael, some time last year in October or November. We were just friends, but by March we were best friends. Somewhere betweem then, I guess I began to like him. All of my friends told me that Michael and I should go out, but I always said, "NO. He DOESN'T like me any more than a friend!" Even his friends/best friends would tell me that he liked me. Michael would always flirt with me and we would talk on the phone, constantly be talking at school, and we would pass notes every now and then. One time a guy said something to me at school that resulted in me bursting into tears and Michael came over to me and said, "It's okay. You didn't do anything wrong." Then at lunch he found the guy and yelled at him for what he said to me. He was the sweetest, most caring guy I had ever met. At the beginning of the year, I found out he was going to be homeschooled and he had not said anything to me about it. I've lost my best friend and the first guy that I have ever really liked in my life. I've never missed anyone or anything this much in my life. I've been thinking about him a lot lately for some reason and it's making me miss him even more and even more upset. Is there a way that I can just get him out of my head or SOMETHING?!
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Well, truely, getting him out of your head is the wrong thing to do. Think about it this way, think of how much you miss him. Now think about all of Micheal's friends at school, Now think of all of your friends at school. You are just losing Micheal, think of all the people he's missing. Think of all of the people he may never see again. Think of all the people he hung out with causually who think, oh I'll definatly stay in touch, and then never even learn his phone number.
Whether he's your best friend or just some guy you knew for a couple of months, it is up to you to try and keep the friendship going. I think you should try calling him, and finding times to hang out. That will get him out of your head in the bad way it is now, and keep him in the head the way that is good, the way where you're spending a boreing math class wondering what movie to see with him rather than racking your brain to find something else to think about.
You didn't mention how far away he lives, but if he lives a long ways away, you could email, or even snail mail him, and send him cards on special days.
If all of that is just not an option, then you should try and find something else to concentrate on. Join a club and meet a guy that you want to think about, or make a new friend. if you find another person to build a relationship with and have fun with them.
Whatever it is you need to find something to fill the whole that he left in your life.
I hope I helped you find a way to get him out of your head. Lots of love,
Angie91
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