The guy I love and I have been fighting a lot lately. We both decided it was best if we take a break to get our heads straight. He said he is willing to wait as long as I want to be with me. Today I was going to tell him I wanted to be his again but he wouldn't talk to me at all. He would talk to all his friends and they'd tell me but he wouldn't talk to me. After an hour of crying I asked him to talk to me and tell me why he wont talk to me and he said he has fallen for another girl...Of course I started crying. I am begging to be his again and I don't know what else to do, I don't want to hurt myself like I'm known to do. I really love him a lot and he means more than the world itself to me. I don't know what to do to calm down or how to get him back. Can someone please give me any advice on how I might get him back or what to do? Thanks in advance
He really should have handled this differently, and shown more regard for your feelings, but what's done is done. His biggest mistake was promising to "wait as long as you want" which is a promise that one simply cannot guarantee to keep.
It's possible that he will come back to you, but you cannot make it happen by crying or begging. If you actually succeeded using those methods, what kind of relationship would it be? Certainly not one that anyone would want. The only thing you can do is go on without him and hope for the best, and bear in mind that the "best" might be for you to remain an ex-couple. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
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