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why did he break up with me?
Ok,so i had been going out with this guy for about a month. Me and him got along really well..physically and emotionally. I was scheduled to leave on a one week vacation to mexico friday night so he came over before and we had an awesome time. hen i got back from mexico, though, he had left two messages on my voicemail. They said he wasn't ready for a relationship. he left these messages one day after the amazing night we had on friday. later, when i called him back, he said again he wasnt ready and wanted to break it off now before we got emotionally attached. Why would he do this? `Everything was going perfectly in between us, and waht does he mean by not being ready for a relationship? He was ready the week before? please help becuase im confused thanks
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I'd be confused too. Maybe he thought of the idea of a big relationship and got scared and didnt want to make any serious commitment. Some people are scared by commitment. He <b>couldd</b> have used that as an excuse to break up cause maybe he lost intrest or didnt like you as much anymore. If thats the case, i wouldnt know why he'd use that as an excuse (scared to hurt you maybe?). You can either just accecpt it- (probably better for you, but very hard and painfully in some cases cause you might not want to let go.. probably because you think theres still hope in being together).. or ask him what the problem is and talk to him about it, probably cause you cant bear not knowing the truth (which might hurt more geting answers to questions you might not want to find out or just have him say alot of hurtful things- maybe not meaning to hurt you). If i was in the situation, depending on the guy and just the way I am, i would probably ask him what happened. But you might be different or the same, so do whichever you need to. Best, besttt of luck and i hope this helped ♥
Katie
Ps. sorry if that was kind of confusing
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