every time i go shopping (usually in a&f,ae,or hollister) my mom thinks i have no mind of my own and only buy size small because my friend half my size does. but its not true im 14 and 5`4 and 112 pounds. i AM a size small. i went in the dressing room and came outside with a size small shirt on. the shirt was kinda baggy and it was really long at a&f and my mom said it was too small. i tried on the medium and it was soo big it looked retarted and my mom made me get the medium and i wont wear any of those clothes to school because they are freakishly big. my mom thinks that since all of my friends are super skinny and size small that im just trying to be like them. when i ask her if im fat she tells me to gain weight but when it comes to clothes she tells me to get mediums when they look soooooo ugly. my mom made me buy a pair 6 jeans when they fell off me even with 2 belts. i asked the girl in abercrombie what size i am and she said 0 or 1. so i tried both on they were both fine but my mom said they are too small and ill grow out of them but im not!!!!!!! im not not growing any bigger im done frowing. she makes me feel like im fat but im friggin 112 pounds. im a small and she cant admit it........im done with this crap
orphans answered Sunday November 26 2006, 10:33 am: if you have had your period, that means you will stop growing. tell her that, and you dont always have to go shopping with your mom
or just keep the clothes and go back by yourself and exchange them for the smaller size.
my mom is a psychiatrist so i hear stuff like this alot, and the ereason she is saying this is EITHER because as a child, she was fat/chubby, and you are petite, so suppressed memories OR she doesnt like the way you are dressing because she thinks you are growing up to fast keep in mind, you are 14, and you dont need to shop with her
ive been metroing up to the mall bymyself since i was like 11 or 12. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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