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So, recently my mom told me I couldn't see my boyfriend anymore because of problems won't go into great detail. But, we have a pretty large age gap, so much that it is ILLEGAL for us to have sex. My sister called him & told him he couldn't see me anymore because of the whole situation that happened, and told him if he did - she'd call the cops.
My mother & sister don't know I'm seeing my boyfriend.. still. My dad is completely on my side because he really likes my boyfriend a lot and thinks we should see each other, so when me and my boyfriend go out, my dad pretends that I'm at my friends houses, he drops me off and he talks to their parents. So, my mom REALLY believes it, she doesn't even suspect it.
My boyfriend HATES us hanging out without my mom knowing, so he told me he doesn't wanna do it behind her back anymore. It hurts because there's no other way I could see him. :(
Is it wrong for me to be completely mad at him? I mean my dad is doing this for both of us, and it makes me feel really good.. and now my boyfriends not taking advantage of that!
Please help, thank you..
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Its illegal for a reason - not only should your bf be nervous - but your Dad too. He's liable for your actions.
Take a step back and trust your bf - he doesn't want to hangout without your mom knowing, accept it. More the relationship status to a friendship until your lega.
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Your boyfriend doesn't want to go to jail is the whole thing. He has every right to be nervous about it.
When it comes right down to it, your dad would be unable to do a thing if the law found out. Your boyfriend would be arrested and charged with statutory rape. The state would be the one prosecuting him.
If you think about it, your dad is probably doing it so he is one up on your mom. Dads love us to pieces but they like to look like the hero to. He isn't doing you a favor. You and the boyfriend get caught
and he gets busted. Nothing a willing accomplice can do about it, even if hes your dad. Sorry. So don't be mad at your boyfriend. Hes just saving himself jail time.
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