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So sad.....


Question Posted Tuesday November 21 2006, 5:15 am

For some weird reason, I've been feeling down lately and I DON'T KNOW WHY..... It's just that I'm always not in the mood these past few days.... It's like I couldn't find any reason to cheer up.....And I've been thinking, "I wish I had someone to make me happy...." You get it, right?

I've always enjoyed my single life and my girl friends are even jealous of me because of this.... But right now, I dunno..... I'm getting sick and bored of being single.....Argh!!!!! I really dunno what to do to make myself feel better..... Help!


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Additional info, added Thursday November 23 2006, 5:11 am:
I get irritated soooo easily and I get lonely easily, too.... I wasn't like this before..... Like, right now, even the smallest things make me feel down or irritated..... And I feel like I have no right to be happy.... And I don't feel appreciated at all....I can't even count on my friends to make me feel a lil' better......

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rick505 answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 4:09 pm:
dont plunge into a relationship in the hopes of finding hapiness. if you dont know what you want right now time will inevitabley steer you in the right direction. I know this sounds old fashioned but why dont you try "dating". ask a guy out to something (movies, ice rink, local event) see if going out boosts your spirits, if it does maybe your ready to take the next step. there is lots of middle ground between being single and in a relationship that most people dont explore in todays world.

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Flaggal answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 1:30 pm:
I think you're lonely. Maybe you are just tired of being single and want to be wanted. It could also be school strugles. You never really know until its solved...which is kinda strange...

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BitsandPieces answered Tuesday November 21 2006, 12:36 pm:
It is called "The grass is always greener on the other side." You would feel this way even if you had a boyfriend, because it is not any one else's responsibility or within anyone else's power to MAKE you happy. Happiness is a state of YOUR mind and you need to take steps to find out and go after what you define happiness as at this moment. No one else can do that for you. You want a boyfriend? Decide what you are looking for exactly and then be open to love. Find your own reason to cheer up! Guy's are not going to be attracted to Miss Mopey or Miss Lonely Without A Man. If you don't know how to make yourself happy, how can you expect someone else to? Tell yourself that now is the time for change and make steps to prepare yourself for meeting the man of your dreams...if he walked by you tomorrow, would you make a great impression? Be your best self now, and attract your best potential man. The thing to know is that you were happy before him, and you have something to offer, not just take.

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