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dont know what to do


Question Posted Sunday November 19 2006, 10:45 pm

alright well about 4 years ago i went out with this boy for about a year..he was ABSOLUTLEY my first love and once we broke up we would kinda go back out but not really..and in between those times both of us would have someone we were kinds together with..well about a month or so ago he broke up with his girlfriend and we talk..ALOT,,but i have a boyfriend and i want my ex sooo bad and i dont know what to do..like should i break up with my boyfriend?..im so confused please help :0
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LadyAnne answered Saturday November 25 2006, 4:13 pm:
What does your ex feel about you?

If you feel you aren't 'into' your current boyfriend, then break up with him, regardless of whether or not your ex is in the picture.

Please keep in mind that even if you do break up with your current beau, your ex might not be interested in a relationship with you. This depends on how he feels and why the two of you broke up.

But, also, don't stay with the current bf just because you don't want to be alone. Some of the best times of my life I had when I was single and I didn't have to 'answer' to anybody else.

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summerGIRL_xo answered Monday November 20 2006, 4:14 pm:
hey...

i don't know you so i may be wrong, but i'm just going to tell you what i think. it seems liek you and your ex go back to each other when other things don't work out, becuase you may be comfortable with each other and know each other well since you were together for a substantial amount of time. everyone you're with since him, and everyone he's with since you, you may be comparing to your relationship. when those new relationships dotn work out, you probably want what you guys used to have. first, ask yourself - do you REALLY like your ex? or do you just miss what you guys had and how you were so comfortable with each other? you shouldn't throw away what you have with your boyfriend now if you like him, because chances are when someone else comes along, your ex might go with that girl.. he might just be using you as a backup. hope i helpedd. if you need anymore drop one in my inboxxx :)

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taylorbuggg answered Monday November 20 2006, 6:30 am:
before you break up with your "now" boyfriend, you should talk to your ex. you need to ask him how he feels about you. in my opinion i think he likes you. if he says he likes you just tell your bf that things just aren't working out and ask to just be friends. If he says he doesn't like you, you might should still break up with your bf, cause it is kinda wrong to be liking someone else at the same time.


well i hope everything works out ok....good luck!
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