ive posted before about how i liked my cousins friend. hes 20 and im 17 ( which sounds bad because the limit is 18 in my state but if you think about it, its not so bad and no one really minds around here) he started showing interest in me when we would hangout with everyone, so i IMED him online and we talked for a bit. one night when we were all out we kissed and then the next night i went to my cousins friends house with all of her guy friends (he invited me) the next weekend we hookedup (had sex )and we talked all week online (he goes to college like 30 minutes away) friday he didnt call or IM me online when he got home so i figured he didnt want to hang (hence his away was going out with john call me with plans) early in the night he called and asked what i was doing and i told him i was going to a nice restaraunt in boston (15 mins away) and i said id call him on the train home so maybe we could meet up. he called me pretty drunk and i was like whatever maybe ill see ya later. i ended up going to his friends house with my cousin and everyone and he was all over me and stuff but i left early because i was just tired. he called me wondering why i left and i was trying to get out of him if he liekd me or not, when talking on aim. i felt weird coming straight forward but i was like ohh your usingg me huh (joking around) and he was like im tryingg to see youu but if you want to hookup then w.e ( i wasnt sure if he ment like see ( date) or see, like meet up becaus ehe was talkin about that earlier) i dont know what to do, like i cant come straight out and ask if he liikes me, help what do i do!? p.s hes coming home like tues or wed
One of the biggest problems with crushes today is we aren't able to talk about how we feel, and we are afraid of telling the person we are crushing on how we feel, because the other person might not feel the same...
You need to come straight out and see if he likes you, think of it this way...
If you don't ask him, and he does like you, by you not asking he might think that you are not intrested.
If you ask him, and he does like you, then something great might become out of you confronting him with your feelings..
Let's say he doesn't share the feelings that you do.
In that case, this helped you because now you know that he is not worth getting your feelings hurt over...
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