if you believe your pretty and act confident without being cocky, people will believe it too.
try a new look.
closet - go through your closet and get rid of anything that you dont like or doesnt fit. then go to whatever stores you like to shop at and buy a whole new wardrobe. it will probably cost a lot, so i'd consider waiting until christmas so you can use all of your giftcards to buy clothes.
hair - try a new hairstyle. you will be wayyyy more noticeable if your hair looks different. if you have long hair, maybe try cutting it shorter. if you want to change the color, put highlights in your hair or dye it. you dont even need to go to the hairdresser, if you like your hair the way it is then if you usually wear it straight, scrunch it or curl it with a curling iron. if you wear it curly, straighten it. just mix up the hair a little, you will be noticed for sure.
make up - i bet you already wear makeup, but if you dont you might want to try a little. dont cake it on because thats a huge turn off, and yes you will be noticed but not in a good way lol. just play around with some blush, eyeliner, lipgloss, mascara and maybe a little eyeshadow and it makes a difference. try different colors of make up and dont buy cheap brands. you dont have to buy the most expensive ones, but cheap makeup sometimes looks bad. victorias secret has cutee makeup. =]
my final word, looking good isnt everything. you have to walk the walk and talk the talk. if you keep saying "oh my god im so ugly" and "oh my god why cant i look like ____" you will never be pretty, no matter what you do. lets face reality, you cant be pretty unless you're pretty on the inside and out. you have to be confident and have self esteem. dont call yourself ugly, it wont make yourself any prettier. if you dont believe your attractive, then you cant be attractive. bob smith and jimmy santos (fake names) might think your hott, but no ones opinion matters - only yours.
if you want to send me a picture of you, i could tell you what makeup you should try and what hair colors/styles would look pretty on you. dont worry im not a stalker but i would be happy to help
VainTaraLynn answered Saturday November 18 2006, 8:55 pm: Well. It depends on what you consider attractive. If you dont wear makeup, you could consider wearing that. You could wear flashy jewelry, or bright outfits. But honestly, I wouldnt recommend doing any of that. Who cares what people think of your outward appearance. Just be yourself and let people notice you because of your personality, not because you're wearing things to make them want to get to know you. They should want to anyways.
But eh.
If you insist on changing your outward appearance, then go with the above suggestions.
Buy a new outfit, some flashy jewelry, apply makeup.
Bright colors make people stand out
Dont go too heavy on the makeup though.
You might draw negative attention.
The confidence thing has always worked for me, no matter what Im wearing. So its how you present yourself. Buy a brand new outfit and walk around like your worth a million bux. People are drawn to that. [ VainTaraLynn's advice column | Ask VainTaraLynn A Question ]
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