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Getting the nerve to talk to a guy
So I see this guy a at pizzaplace across from my school. it's sorta a hangout place and i'm there a lot and friends with the owner. The new manager is 17 n is ALWAYS lookin at me n grinning when i'm in there n is just always checking me out. n i grin back n look but he hasn't said nething to me! i don't know what to say to get a nice convo going or why he hasnt talked to me? any ideas?
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Well since you two are in a pizza place, why not talk of pizza? I don't mean food-wise, I mean work-wise, since he works there, it'll give you both already something to talk about that you know of, and it may give him a chance ( if he uses it ) to show off his "manager skills" and how he's "head person" around the place to try and impress you.
I would just go to him and be like,"Hey, you're the new manager, right?" And just ask him how it's going so far, and if he likes the job. Tell him you're always coming here with your friends all the time, and that you'd think it'd be great to work in a place like this. And just share a conversation about it. Then you can try and slid into other topics. Ask him what school he goes to, if he goes at all. If he goes to your school, then just ask him what teachers he has and did he have to take that horrible exam the other day, you know, small things at first.
You just have to try and slyly work into other types of topics and just try and get to know him better, and don't forget to obviously throw some flirting in there here and there so he'll know you're interested in him.
Then, whenever you have to go, just be like,"Aw man, it sucks that I have to go. I was having a great time talking with you. Hey, do you have AIM or something? Could I have your screename so we can talk some more?" And just IM him if he does, or email him, etc. And see where it goes from there.
Just keep trying to make conversation with him daily. After awhile, since it seems to me like he does like you ( :D ), he'll want to start walking over to you and trying to make conversation with you. If he doesn't, don't get discouraged, he may just be really shy, like you are nervous trying to talk to him!
I hope I helped.
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