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Whats wrong with me? Never had a boyfriend..<3
16 female
oooOooh how confusing my love life is.. =(
bottom line- ive never had a boyfriend.
this is the only REAL stuff that has happened with me and guys..kinda sad i know...
1. one of my brothers friends thought i was hott. he was a senior and i was a freshman we ended up making out and that was it..
2. met this guy through my cousin this summer, ive hungout with him with other people before but we hungout for a day , just us, and he ended up kissing me at the movies- he always thought i was very very attractive he said, he went back to his EX gf of almost a year and a half and is obsessed over her...soo weird to see him now!
3. known this really sweet adorable atheltic guy thats a pretty good guy friend. we flirted like crazy over the summer but never kissed. we got very physical though. he ended up getting a girlfriend and i still like him...
everytime i see this guy my heart races. he still doesnt know i like him but should by the way that we would flirt. we would pratically be on top of each other :] i just wish things could be the way they use to and it kills me soo much to see him with his gorgeous girlfriend and talk about her to me...i mean i listen because im his good friend im trying soo hard to be happy for him! i cant tell him i like him-too awkward for our friendship. i can tell he thinks im at least cute. but i think he just thinks of me as a good friend....
i am soo fed up! i mean everyone tells me how gorgeous i am and how nice and sweet and everyone is soo shocked i mean SHOCKED when they hear ive never had a boyfriend. im not even that shy. i dont know whats wrong with me. i dont go out and look for guys im so bad with approaching them. but every guy ive had interactions with has left me or got a girlfriend. im still a virgin and the farthest ive gone is making out. i dont know what im doing wrong?
any suggestions? i just dont see whats wrong with me this makes me soo sad sometimes. i even think im okay looking. i mean i get stares from guys and ive heard tons of guys think im hott but nothing ever comes from it or they're all like one or two years younger..
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i know how you feel. i have made out with guys who liked me but we didn't go out. it's very irritating. just keep in mind that when the leave you and go back to their EXes that it's their loss. just be yourself and give it some time, something will come your way, and it will be somebody who will not only like how you look, but also who you are. Don't give up gurl!
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I have the same problem
Havent had a boyfriend for a year ..
But again Im blonde, Tall and Slim ..And wouldnt say im ugly...
You need to slow down and not think about it so much , dont rush.
As soon as you see someone you like you will become flustered and sit and imagine yourself with him ..
If you see someone you like..talk to them ..and find out more..
You dont want to hope on a relationship if he lives far..or doesnt go out much...and stuff like that. So before being a gf try thinking of all the possible problems ^^
Also it could be because you know your pretty so you think you dont need to try..
But in that guys head hes thinking, shes got a boyfriend why should I try, I will only get rejected..
Good luck ^^ Any more help email me .. Email is ony advice page..
<3 Love LittleMooCow
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