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hes being a jerk
Well This might sound stupid but so what
I broke up with my bf over myspace.
dumbest thing i've ever done.
I'm usually the one getting broken up with and i felt really bad and it got even worse cause i thought about it for 2 weeks which was bad and made be feel so horrible that i didnt even want to hear his voice so i decided not to do it on the phone.
Its really stupid but then he started telling everyone about it and how stupid it was and i had people asking me about it and it really annoyed me.
then he tried to start stuff with me and hes starting to be a real big jerk.
I just need advice
help.
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Confront him...in real life face to face, of course and tell him that you are sorry that he is upset and that you were trying to make it easier for both of you by breaking it off in a non-confrontational way, but now you see by his reaction that you should have told him to his face that you wanted to break-up. If he acts like a jerk, you can tell him that in the future you hope that for his sake all his girlfriends dump him to his face! I would tell anyone that asks why you did it on myspace, that it was just something you thought would save him the humiliation of being dumped to his face, and that by his reaction you can see now that he would have wanted the drama no matter what. His reaction is his choice my dear, and not your problem.
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Okay, I'll admit it too-breaking up with your boyfriend over myspace is not a good idea-it's just dumb. But I'm not criticizing your decision, because I know how hard breaking a relationship off face-to-face can be.(Although doing it personally is more sincere.) Yes, guys can be total jerks, I would know, because a guy I knew a few months ago did almost the exact same thing to me, although he said I slept with him and I didn't. Anyways, the thing I would try to do first is I would try to confront him, when there's a chance you won't be interrupted by anyone or anything. If and when people consult you about the situation, all I would do is simply say, 'Yes, I admit to breaking up with him over myspace. It wasn't the smartest thing to do, and I regret it. But it's over between us and really, there's no point in talking about how we broke up.' (That's definitely what I would say) If you can't talk to him personally, try calling him, and if he doesn't answer or take your call, leave him a voice mail explaining that you don't appreciate how he's acting, and just say pretty much what you would say to anyone else. (We broke up __days/weeks/months ago and I regret doing what I did and how I did it, but if you ever did that to me, I wouldn't go behind your back and start spreading things that weren't true, etc.)
Good Luck!
Jess♥
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