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Ive got a problem :[
Hi, i saw your advice column and its a good one.
I like this boy alot and we used to do "things"
[if you know what I mean ].
Well my best friend knew about it becuase she was there and she was kind of apart of all of it.
Well she told someone, and now the whole school knows.
I know the boy hates her, and i asked him if he hates me and he said " idk"
but we still go to the same school and we have to see eachother everyday but I did notice he has talked to me less.
I like him soo much and idk what to do.
help please!!
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Well, first off, thank you.
Anytime you are in junior high and/or high school and you "do things" with a guy and people know about it, you run the risk of people finding out and talking about it. The key is to sourround yourself with people you can trust and that will support you. Before "doing things" it's also important to comminicate with the guy and discuss that you want to keep it private or whatever. Same goes with the friend. Eventually this is all going to die down and blow over. But, these things take time. Be mature about it though, don't let them see it's irratating you. Be the bigger person. Also, talk to your friend about her telling. Tell her how you feel disrespected and violated. ALso, tell the guy that you are sorry and you never intended to damage anything between y'all. Give him his space. Don't be all in his face about it. He may come back, or maybe not. If he doesn't, just take this up as a learning experience. :)
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