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Alright.
Alright, so I have a big problem. Probably not as big as I think but. Ha.
Alright so theres this guy, Greg* Hes kinda cute, and hes really nice. He really really likes me. Alot. I mean, for me, im kinda ugly, this is the first person who has ever liked me.
Guys usualy don't like me. && I don't really have any guy friends but this guy.
Greg* Asked me out many times, but I said no. But i wanted to say yes so bad. Why? Heres the problem. My best friend Susan*, Well she is in love with Greg*. They have went out so many times before, and every time he has broken her heart. I can see why, because to be honest, shes a backstabber and shes a meanie! But he hates her sometimes, and hes just trying to get to me. He greats me with HEY SEXY. You looked hot today. And stuff like that.
But she tellsme to stay away from him. And when shes not being a meanie, and a backstabber, shes really nice. So i don't know what to do. Advice please?! Thanks soo much!
* = Name has been changed.
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If you really want to continue being best friends with Susan, I say stay clear from the Greg guy. Obviously she still likes him, you even said, and it'd hurt her for one I'm sure to see him going out with another girl, let alone her BEST friend. I know she's a backstabber, but you'd be just like her then to go and do that to her and go out with Greg. And you don't want to be the meanie backstabber, now do you?
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever."
I know this is the first guy whose ever shown you attention, but there'll be more, trust me. They may not be showing you attention now, but they'll be showing attention to you later.
If she didn't like him anymore, this would be a whole nother story where you could possibly ask him out, but it's not. She likes him still alot and she'd be mighty hurt if you were going to do this to her. You'd gain a boyfriend, but lose a best friend. And boyfriends and girlfriends, especially teenage ones, always tend to break up, so what if you two were to break up, who would you have to go to? Hm?
Also, I'm not trying to burst your bubble here, and I'm not saying that this is the situation or anything. I'm just saying this because I'm thinking of what's happened between people I know in the past and everything, so I'm just listing options. Are you totally positive that this guy likes you? My friend had a similiar situation to this, and it turned out that the guy only wanted her because he wanted to make her best friend jealous after they broke up, and wanted to get his sort of "revenge", so you have to really make sure about that anyways, and make sure it's not just some sort of revenge-type of thing.
But like I said, "Guys come and go, but friends are forever." Are you really willing to lose your best friend over this one guy? Think about it.
I hope I helped.
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