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me again - girl who's trying to get over xmas guy..
ok i was thinking, would it be stupid to lie and say that i have a boyfriend when i get there? like i could say it to my friends, and it would eventually get to him, or is it better to just act like friends..and hope he gets the message? cause im thinking.. like what if he asks me "wtf? what's with the whole gi´ving me the cold shoulder, not flirting back thing..?" like i cant say "yeah ive been in love with you for two years, and i got so deserate that i went to an advice site and they told me to act like "just friends" because i gotta get over you.." you know?? like should i make up a reason for not being as friendly as i normally am (maybe a religious reason, or boyfriend, or ive decided to respect my parents who say i cant date..) or just say "i dont know, i guess im just not that into you anymore.." because i dont think telling him the truth would be that good, you know? what do you think??
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I think the boyfriend idea is good. You don't have to say that much about him, but that will work out. But if you want to be honest, I wouldn't suggest saying it like that.
You would just say, "Well, I've liked you for a while and I'm just moving on now because you aren't available" and then thats that. But whatever helps you better as long as you start to avoid flirting as much with this guy as much as possible.
-TheTeenGirl
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