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i really really like this but she has a boyfriend. we're kinda friends, but not best friends. i really want to go out with her but i dont want to mess up her relationship because i care about her that much. i dont know what to do tell her? or don't and how do i live with this....?
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I wouldn't tell her just yet. Telling her now might harm the friendship you two have right now, and you want that at least going for you if you can't date her, right? Also, this might make the boyfriend overprotective and jealous and just might create unwanted drama for everybody.
I would just continue being her friend and being there for her, and maybe show signs of you liking her every now and then ( so you don't have to keep all your feelings so bottled up inside ) like pay her compliments and be sweet and funny to her and everything, but just subtle messages, nothing like "YOU ARE THE GODESS OF MY LIFE, MY LOVE. BEAR MY CHILDREN", lol.
Anyways.
Then sooner or later, as most teenage relationships do, theirs may come to and end, and be there for her, comfort her, try and cheer her up and everything and once she's over him, let her know how you feel and everything.
Even if it doesn't, as time progresses on and you're near the end of the year going off into summmer, maybe tell her then. Write it in her yearbook, tell her over the phone, however you want to do it. I just know you need to tell her at some point, because you never know what her feelings could be for you, even if she does have a boyfriend. I just wouldn't do it so early in the year, cause like I said, that'd be a whole school year of drama and jealousy possibly and whatnot.
So hang out with her, share jokes, compliment her, show her the great guy you are, and someday whenever you feel fully ready to tell her ; do it. Just be honest with her and see what happens from there. If she does like you back, great! If she doesn't, just know it's her loss.
I hope I helped.
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