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Do you see where i'm coming from?
I just got in touch with my dad and his family one year now. i haven't seen them since so we mostly talk on the phone they live down south and i live up north. my youngest aunt who's 24 (1'm 18) wanted me to open up at first and i did i mean i told her things i tell my bestfriend only to make her feel included in my life. well i started relalizing that all the time i was being open with her she was never sharing anything with me. when i first got in touch she told me things that happened but it was stuff from the past. just lately i realized that when she told me some things and i brought it back up to her she would say something different which makes it a lie obviously. every time i tell her something all she does is tell her sister who is my other aunt and her bestfriends. i was writing letters to her and since she doesn't like calling my house because of my mom i would buy calling cards or call friends to call her for me when i didn't have a cell phone. i just feel really hurt and excluded since she claims that i'm part of her life and she never tells me anything about her life i'm always wondering. for the past months i've barely called her and when i do i never tell her anything personal. i think it's bad that i have to act this way but she's pushing me away with her lying and selfishness. do you agree with me?
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yes, i agree she is being somewhat mean about not sharing things with you. but maybe it's because she feels "the older" from the two of you and thinks that she should be the one giving you advice not vice-versa. Since she is older than you maybe she thinks you have no say in what goes on in her personal life. Maybe you should speak up to her and let her know that you have ideas and guidelines that might help her too. Hope i helped..
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