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Wanting sex?
I'm only 12 years old but i really want sex, is that normal?I have really bad urgs is it possible for a girl to horny?How old should I be before I have sex, and what is mastervation I'ev herd it good for you and can help you when you feel like you want to have sex, is that true?
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At your age this is actually very normal. Your hormones are changing and your body doesn't really know just what to do with them yet. Hormones are there to insure we have sex so that the species continues. That means that anyone with hormones gets horny.
As for when to have sex, that is really a personal choice. Some people wait until they are married, some people have sex younger than you are now. My opinion? You shouldn't have sex until you are aware of the possible consequences and fully able to deal with them. That means that you understand that you could get pregnant or get an std, and you have to be able to handle it. So does your partner. I was 16. My bf was 15 (five years later we got married :)). My mother was 13 when she had her first child. She did well, but lost a lot of her childhood and that was not good for her. So, I would say wait at least until around 15 or 16, if not longer. Make sure you are responsible. Always use condoms, and perhaps see about getting on the pill. Using both together is a much greater protection than just one or the other alone.
Masterbation is also a personal issue. Yes, it can certainly help with urges. Basically, it is stimulation of the genitals (rubbing private parts) for pleasure. I find it to be healthy for a few reasons:
1. you can't get pregnant or sick from your own hand or toys (if you use toys, make sure they are for your use only and that they are cleaned well)
2. if you are having sex, being aware of your body can help you to know if something is wrong. If you are masterbating and you feel something different from before, it may need checked out.
3. it helps you know what kinds of touch you like, which will make sex much more pleasurable later on.
Here are some sites that you may find helpful:
masterbation myths: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
solo touch, a site about why masterbation is a good thing: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
an article about teen hormones: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Hope that helps!
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