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Help Me Get Him Back
Ok heres my the deal:
-had a b.f for 4 months
-we had a fight one night, and the next day i got a text asking is this is?is it over?
-i called him later and asked him if he wanted it to be over. he said he was in the middle
-i got mad and said fine then lets end it and he said fine...it was a weird convo with many silences and uncertainties
-problem is... i still love him
- he told my best friend that night that he regrets breaking up and he wants me back
- i wantd him back too so i sent little texts like a smily face and stuff to him
-we spoke on tuesday over texts and he said we could be still be friends and we spoke about the realtionship and what went wrong
-tuesday we spoke again and i told him that i was sad it was over and he said so was he, but the reason he was in the middle was cause he thought the realtionshio was getting boring and almost long distance cause im in university.
-i told him lets wait a month and stay friends with potential to decide what to do (cause he did hurt me)and he agreed
-im trying to get him involved with group outings like this thing this saturday but it costs 30$ to get in and he says hes not going cause he needs the money to get a car...and hes working like every night now, a lot more then he did when he was with me
-i really want to see him and i believe that what we had was real
-all my family and friends think im stupid for even considering it cause we broke up already
-but i believe in 2ns chances and i think we can work through it
-we spoke again last night on msn and we were joking around, and he told me...."i know you still want me" and i joked around saying ya i want u so bad...and hes like "i know you do" what does that means?...so thats my story....
I dont want to seem desperate or anything but i want him back and i dont know how to do it? do you think he wants me back? thanks soo much! u guys have really helped me
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I really feel for you.
The fact that he knows you want him back shows he's getting a bit of a big head and may in fact be enjoying that! So next time he says that retort that you know he wants you! See what he says!
It's good if you can build up your friendship because in a relationship, being friends is important! However, be careful that he's not giving you false hope or playing around with you because you clearly have deep feelings for him and he should understand and respect that.
Distance can be an issue but if you really have something special and you'r eboth willing to put the work in, then it can work out. I think you need to talk to him and mkae sure he understands and respects your feelings. You need to know where you stand and whether this is going in the directionyou want it. Make sure you're both on the same page otherwise you may end up hurt again.
Also, try and remain calm and civilised. I know this seems silly but when things get heated , it's easy to say something you don't mean...hence you two breaking up in the first place.
I hope things work out for you for the best! Good luck!
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