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theres a guy that i really like and were freinds with benefits, since he said that he dosent have time 4 a girlfreind. i have talked to him about us dating instead of being freinds with benefits, and like i said before, he said that he dossent have time for 1 and he feels as though if we dated then he wouldnt be able 2 spend the time with me that he felt that i would want, but the truth is that as long as i got to see him at school and sometimes on the weekends that would be enough 4 me. well he dosent know i feel that way, anyways, he said that he really likes me, and he DOES show it, but kind of secreltyish, um like if were leaving the room, he will grab my hand or do something sweet, and if were in the auditorium, than he will rub my leg and rub my hand. and now im REALLY into him, and i mentioned us dating again and he said "once again" that he dosent have time 4 a girlfreind, but once he does then i'd b his first choice. well latelyi havent asked him about the whole "dating" situation, but he has kind of said some thigns related to it. but now things have changed a little, he is kinda talking about other girls in a way, like i asked him to homecoming -he cant go- but he had said that like 4 other girls asked him, and i asked him if he could go to the dance then who would he go with and he said that he didnt know & that it was mean of me to ask that cause there was some other girls whom he have known longer than me, and it wouldnt have had been fair 4 him to have answered that question. so i dont know whats going on with him. and he also said about the whole girlfreind thing that he not only didnt have time 4 one but even if he did, he didnt reely want 1 cause he likes it better having anygirl he wants, anytime he wants other than having 1 girlfreind and no other girl. now THAT reely pissed me off. i hope he dosent just think of me as a peice of ass. cause that would hurt.
what should i do??
please help!!
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I'm sorry but that is all he is seeing. That's what the whole friends with benefits deal is. He wants a piece you give it to him and he is free to see other girls all day long. Of course you could see other guys as well but girls minds don't really work that way most of the time.
The only way you will EVER get him to think of you as anything else is to cut off the benefits. Most likely you won't hear from him again. That's what he is depending on though. The fact that you like him enough you won't do that. He is a player and a user.
Show him the door and stop letting him use you.
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