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Guys and Parents.
Hi! Here's my problem: I'm 15/F, and my parents won't let me go out with guys. I'm responsible, I get good grades (A's and B's), and I'm not a liar. I don't do drugs, smoke, or drink. But my parents won't let me go out with guys until I turn 16. My problem is that I can't just, well, turn off my hormones, you know? And if a guy asks me out that I really like, I don't wanna miss out. But I also don't want to go out with a guy behind my parents' back. Anyway... what should I do? Thanks in advance!
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Do you think they would let you go out with a group of friends as opposed to going out with a guy alone?
That may be a place to start.
You might also ask mom how you should handle it should a guy ask you out. Can you have him over to your house instead of going out? Are you allowed to go to his house if parents are home?
If it has been a while since they told you that you needed to be 16 it is a good idea to discuss it again too. They may now realize that you are mature enough. Tell them what you would and would not do on a date. Discuss it with them in a very mature way.
Whatever you do don't go out behind their backs. If caught they will be a long time trusting you again and you don't want that.
Good luck, hope they realize you are a responsible girl. :)
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