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well thankyou for eventually writing back and not just totally forgeting about me.
I was really confused about my feelings towards him on camp. There were these envelopes and by the end of camp we were supposed to give evryone an encouraging letter and I wrote one to him saying " I know we are supposed to write an encouraging letter but theres something that I have to say that cannot be said in person. I like you and I know we arent together because god doesnt want us together or you don't feel the same way. Either way I just wanted to tell you how I felt about you. Anna
And now I am back at school and we have talked but he doesn't have enough balls to talk about it.
But one thing that I realised on camp is that I don't really have any feelings not true feelings towards him. I needed to tell him to realise I didnt like him anymore it was just a crush.
So I guess I worked my problem out on my own! well kinda. Im still confused about him though.
I also met a very nice guy on camp. His name is Dillon.He comes to my church group too. I would like to know since Im in a small town with nothing to doo with a guy do you have any suggestions if I asked him on a date what we could do? And also theres a formal for the church group and I want to go with him but how can I ask him? I dont want to get shut down and rejected and then not have fun at the formal. Im sorry this is long Im making up for the time between my last letter :)
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I'm somewhat curious as to what you expected him to say in response to your letter. You mention that God doesn't seem to want to two of you to be together. He's not likely to argue with that. He probably feels that you went through the full cycle of noticing him, developing a crush, and getting over it all without his even knowing about it, and it would be rather awkward for him to suddenly involve himself in it now when there is nothing left. If I were you, I wouldn't expect him to have anything to say - it's not a matter of not having the "balls" to talk about it, there's just nothing for him to say about it. It sounds like you need some closure, but frankly, there's nothing in it for him.
I wish I could advise you on fun things to do in a small town, but I had enough trouble finding fun things to do in a large one, so I'm afraid that's not where I can help out.
Insofar as asking someone to the formal... there is risk involved in asking people out. Nothing will ever change that. You basically have two choices - one, take the chance and ask him out; two, wait for him to do it. I guarantee your chances of success are greater with option one.
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