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okay...well this might take a while but i really need to know what to do...okay so during the summer i went out with a guy but then when school started a lot of things were happening and my parents were going through hard time and it was my sisters and my dessicion if they get a divorce or not. So with all that and just confusing i stopped likeing him and i eventually broke up with him. after a week or so we becamoe friends again. Then i realized that i really likmed him still and i regreted everything. I went to a party and he was there and i ended up bawling infront of him and he hugged me and stuff and he was accually there for me. I was going to ask him back out but then the next day he got a gf. I want him to know that i regret breaking up with him and stuff so i wrote a note but i dont know if i should give it to him && im scared that if he knows i still like him that he wont want to be around me all that much anymore. Cause thts what happend to someone else. But anyways i was just wondering if i should talk to him like write a note or smthin i dont know i just really dont know what to do. && i dont want his gf to get mad at me or anythign liek that so if i should talk to him what should i really say? w/o it sounding retarded?
Sorry if it sounds a lil retarded....but yeah idk what to do.
thanks if you can help at all.
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I'm so sorry for what you went through with your parents. It really wasn't fair of them to place the future of their marriage in the hands of you and your sibling/s. I can understand under the circumstances why you broke up with your boyfriend. All the stress is going to make maintaining a relationship very difficult.
I know that you really care about him and you want to be with him, but (as much as this may hurt)you broke up with him and he moved on. As much as you deserve to be happy, so does he and if he has moved on, you can't in good conscience do something that would take that away from him. If you were to write a note or let him know how you feel, the only thing it would do is confuse him and there is a chance it would only end in further disappointment for you.
The best thing for you right now would be to try to move on. If he breaks up with his girlfriend at some point, by all means tell him again how you feel but it isn't worth putting yourself on the line right now and telling him how you feel. It would be too much of a risk and it would be unfair to him and his girlfriend.
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i say tell him.. you only know what you have till its gone.. and if hes there for you, maybe he'll understand
go for it! &&good luck
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It's probably not a good idea to give him the note right now. He's probably in the thrill of having a new girlfriend. Wait awhile and see how their relationship goes along, eventually they'll probably break up if you like him that much. Otherwise, you might find someone else. Who knows what the future can hold.
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