I'm not the coolest guy in my class but i'm no geek either. I probably would have more girls that like me if I didn't get all worked up when I'm talking to them. Every time i'm talking with a girl/girls I get horny. Next thing you know I get an erection. Its really embarrassing to me. I think the girl im talkin to sees in and thinks i'm some kinda pervert.
Am I over reacting ? Do girls notice things like this? If so, what do they think about it?
When you want to talk to one of them, look at them as a sister or a good friend. Relax and take a few deep breaths. Think about what to say BEFORE you talk to her. But just remember, girls are just like guys (plus or minus a few parts) we aren't like robots who speak a different language.
Personally, I think its cute when guys get flusterd and nervous. If you start getting nervous, sorta laugh it off, and tell her you're new at this. She should get the point.
Some topics to talk about:
School/Class.
Movies, sports.
Something you know she's into (sports, music)
Or a casual, "Hey, whats up?"
Anything will work, she can help bring up something to talk about too. So don't stress on this too much.
If a girl does sorta give you a weirded out look, its probably just cause its awkward for her. Obviously, if she's a bitch about it, she's not worth it.
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