Hey whats up.
ok well see's there's this boy and ive liked him for eight years now and he's my BEST LIKE SISTER BEST FRIEND's older brother. yeh so about three years ago we got into a fight. and he has bi polar so its reall hard to communicate with him. but anyways now were all fine and stuff but ive liked him sooooooooooooooooo muchhh for eight years like i was there when the kid lost his virginty so yeh i know alot about him and ive waited soo long like the kid has like freaking has turning points of when he wants to like me or not so yeh idno wat to do .. wait for him longer or give up.
PLEASE HELP!
Like you said, he gets all these turning points of when he'll like you or not, one minute he's in a good mood, the next he's not. I think the relationship between the two of you would probably become very stressful and sad on your part, because of the times when he wouldn't like you, and some things you might say might randomly upset him. It'd be very stressing, I'm sure, and that's not a healthy relationship at all.
Unless, does he take medication to help his disorder? Some people with bipolar disorder go and take medicine ; some people called "mood stabilizers", and it helps them control their moods a little better, and it just helps them. If he is taking some medicine though, I think you could try and give it a shot then, because you never know ; it could be a great relationship, and it'd probably be less stressful and worrying for you.
But I assume from the way you've said he has turning points and freaks out and everything that he's not using medication, so I might want to try your best and let him go.
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