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confused and frustrated...what do i do wrong...
well every guy i ever liked has already has a gf, doesn't want a gf, or just doesn't like me at all. then i look around at all my friends and they all have bf's/gf's (i have guy friends of course). when i'm around my friends, it's kind of akward cuz they're hugging and what ever in front of me and then i end up feeling really sad cuz i have no one to turn to when i'm sad or even when i'm feeling happy. i'm always left out and i feel alone.
what should i do? what would make me feel better at the moment?
i'm not the person who flirts, but i'm not shy either. and the last thing i'll ever do is ask someone out. (i've been turned down 3 different times). i'm alone, lost, and i hate the akward feeling.
pleez help! thanks.
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Concentrating on what we don't have will make us miserable, no matter if it is a boyfriend, money, whatever. If you want to feel better about yourself, start focusing on that which you already have. When you feel bad about yourself, it is not attractive. When you feel good about yourself, then you are more attractive. Looks only go so far, but a fun and positive person is the ultimate turn-on. How do you feel about yourself? Change what you don't like and love what you do. Decide to be your best self, and let others know that you are open for finding a guy, but not desperate! Guys are not attracted to Miss Sad and Desperate, they want Miss Happy and Fun. You don't have to fake it, just find something to feel good about and let it show. About being turned down 3 times...what do you think guys go through? They are always expected to do the asking out and they get rejected most of the time! If you get rejected six more times, then so what! The next one might be the one you have been waiting for! Don't give up! Ask your guy friends that you are NOT interested in if they know any guys that like you? One other thing, you can get more guys then you think. Think brave thoughts!
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