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The guy I like is giving me mixed signals.
Hi, I my name is Laura Michelle. (That is the reason why I chose to write to you, but that is off topic.) Anyways, I am 14 and I really like this guy who is giving me tons of mixed signals. I am the first girl he talks to when he gets to school and I am the only one he will actually talk to (he's really quiet). We talk and flirt all the time, both in and out of school. Everyone can tell that there is something going on between us, but he won't ask me out. I don't know what to do!
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Whoa cool another person with my name :] haha.
You should just be friends with this guy for awhile. Since he's shy, you may have to take the initiative and make plans yourself "hey, you wanna come over after school and work on homework?" and find out what he likes (movies, music, books, school, etc).
Once you know what kind of stuff he likes, ask if he wants to see movie with you. If he asks "Would you consider that a date?" you can then say, "well, only if you want it to be". Guys aren't exactly brilliant, but that should be easy enough for him to figure out.
Remember, he's shy. So don't do anything drastic right away, you might scare him off =P
good luck Laura! (ahh thats so weird to say) :]
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