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Me and my next door neighbor (and his gf)
Im 15 years old, female, and a 10th grader. Ok, so i have this problem. I like a couple of guys. One of them happens to be my next door neighbor. Hes 2 years older than me. We hung out like every night in the summer time. We kissed twice in August, and then again, last wednesday, after watching the sabres game. We always flirt so much, we cuddle on the couch, hold hands, and he slaps my butt. He tells me how im so pretty, and he always tells me he loves me. So after watching the sabres game together in my basement, we made out for the first time. It was just the two of us watching it, so it was ok. BUT heres the problem-- he has a girlfriend..!! and she hates me so much. and he talks about her behind her back, but theyve been going out for 5 months now, hes broken up with her plenty of times, i think 12, but they always end up getting back together. idk what to do cause its hard to think of us kissing one nite, and then the next day hes with her again. i dont know what to do, cause i dont want to turn him down cause i like him, but im almost thinking i should cause he has a gf. but i dont know if he likes me or not..or if hes jjust leading me on. Answer me back please!
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what i think is that if he honestly likes you, and you guys are getting along well, and it's off and on with the other girl, he should break up with his gf and go out with you.
if they have been breaking up that many times...
they both probably don't want to give up the fact that they don't like each other anymore.
then again, i don't know, but it could be the case.
as far as you told me, there is nothin wrong with what you're doing. what i think you should do though, is tell him how you feel about you feeling like you're in the way (or whatever the case is). you say he loves you, so he should probably respect how you feel. and ask him if he honestly likes the other girl and see what he says.
Eventually if he breaks up with his gf and goes out with you, congratulations. and after that, if his gf has problems, it's for her to deal with not you.
i really hope i helped out.
and god luck :)
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