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16/f ~ 15/m
We've been dating for nearly a year, 8 consecuative months, but basically dating for a year. I'm 16/f, and he's 15/m.
If you don't include the past month, everything was absolutely ideal. We'd stay up for hours on the phone, and we'd just talk about the stupidest stuff. For a while it was a long distance relationship, and it was fine. We'd see eachother on the weekends.
Two weekends ago he decided that he was so stressed out that he would cut off all communications. Ofcourse it was the weekend my grandfather died, so I was hoping that my own boyfriend would have been there for me.
We're talking again.. but..
He's making the most horrible choices for himself. When we first met, he was a horrible stoner and a chain smoker. He quit those 'for me' because I was 'the only one who has ever cared' and up until a month ago, he's picking up these old habits. He's skipping school and making less efforts to see me.
It's breaking my heart. I've been so stressed when it comes to school ect, that I don't need his diva crap, you know? When I say diva crap, I mean, the second he has to do something that doesn't sppeal to him, he just won't do it.
I guess I'm asking, where do I draw the line? Like, should I break up with him? How can I talk to him about this so he understands my concerns?
I have so much on my plate, I don't know how much longer I can keep it together. Help me?
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I totally understand what your saying! I hate it when guys do that. One minute they like you the next you don't really feel that connection anymore. I think you should talk to him and tell him what u just wrote to me. Don't take this crap from no one after you talk to him and he doesn't get better you abviously have to leave him. he's showing that he doesn't care about you and that's the least thing you need from anyone. But before you end it think about it and don't make a mistake you probably might regret it. Hope I halped good luck!
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I don't think you should break up with him just yet since you two had a good relationship for a long time. Talk to him about this. You need to tell him how you feel. Tell him that you feel he doesn't have enough time for you and you really need him. You need to be honest with him. If that doesn't work then i think you guys should take a break for a while so he can come to his senses and realize he can lose you.
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