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This guy in school...
I like this guy in school, lets call him Jonny. I am 75% sure that he likes me back but i am not sure. I dont want to ask him out and have him say no because I will be really embaressed. The thing is I have knwon this kid since like 3rd grade and we are best friends and another reason is if I ask him out and he says no i will not only be embaressed but it might ruin our friendship. I guess I am asking how can I go out w/ him w/o embaressing myself or having him say no.
13-female
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Well, there really is no exact way to make him not say no to you if you ask him out.
I would suggest just hanging out with him one day, all day, doing whatever it is he wants to do. Go see a movie and go out to dinner or go to the amusment park and just flirt with him and have a great time and show him the great person you are and how great you'd be as a girlfriend.
Then as the night is coming to an end, just ask him if he had a great time, and when he says yes, tell him he deserves a great time, and let him know you've done this whole thing for a reason. And just let him know of your feelings for him. Just be like,"____, I really like you alot. Now I'm not sure how you feel about me, but I just needed to let you know cause if I don't say it now, I probably never will. And if you don't feel the same, I really hope we can just remain friends, cause I would rather be your best friend then nothing at all and I wouldn't want to lose you over this."
If he says yes, then great! I mean you're already 75% sure he likes you, which is more than half of a chance already!
If he does say no, it might be a little akward at first, but if you keep focusing on remaining friends and work at it hard enough and keep it from becoming awkward, then you should be able to slip out of that awkward phase gracefully. If you don't make it awkward, then it won't become awkward.
I hope I helped, and I hope he likes you back!
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