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First love vs Someone better
I was in love with this guy over the summer. We'll call him Don. Don broke up with me because he had feelings for his ex. I later found out they didn't get back together but had too much respect for myself to get back with him. So I did my best to get over Don. That's when about a week later I met Lenny. Lenny had fallen in love with me at first sight, while my emotions were still awol. Since then I've learned to love Lenny and I've found that I've never had someone make me as happy, not even Don. Lenny and I were at his house earlier, keep in mind we're a great couple, want to get married, the whole nine yards. But earlier, Don called me, we had small talk and he said he'd call later. Don still hasn't gotten back together with his ex after a month of being single. My question is, Should I talk to Don? Should I have feelings for him? Should I stay with Lenny or go back to Don? Why would Don call me after a month of not talking?
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Alright the REAL question here is, why WOULD you want to choose a guy that broke up with you in two seconds for his ex-girlfriend over a guy whose great and wants to marry you and everything and really loves you?
I suggest that you think about the situation. If you were to talk to Don, do you think you could possbily get feeling sfor him again, or no? If no, then I think you should talk to him, who knows? You guys could wind up friends, but if you could imagine yourself, I'd keep my distance from him unless you want to potentially ruin the current great relationship you have. And even if you did leave Lenny for Don, whose to say that Don won't leave you again in two seconds for some other girl and leave you hanging? I don't think Lenny would come back again the second time around to cheer you up.
Don is probably calling you because he misses you and he wants someone to just "fall back on", which is completley stupid. Also, he might want somebody to talk to, which like I said if you couldn't imagine yourself liking him, could do as a FRIEND. Guys always think they can just randomly call up their old girlfriends or any type of girl if the one girl they wanted didn't work out and the girl's going to be all comforting and want them back and be all sentimental and whatnot. Hopefully Don's just looking for friendship, and nothing more.
I hope I helped.
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