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Ok, there's this boy and i really like him but he admitted t
Ok, there's this boy and i really like him but he admitted to me on saturday that he doesnt like me that way and he's sorry.. for some reason i thought i was moving on but i can't.. i wind up thinking about him durring class and i have dreams about him sometimes.. i dont know what to do.. can anyone help?
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Only you can choose to give up the fantasy. The fantasy is distracting you from living your real life. It could be that there are very cute guys that would love for you to go out with them, but you are too busy wasting time over a lost cause. Once you accept reality, you will shorty realize that he was not so great, anyway. If he does not see how wonderful you are, then he must be lacking something. Keep him off your mind, by opening your mind and heart to others.
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There's nothing in particular you can do with this situation, I've been there myself. One of the hardest things to do is let go of someone you really like when they have no feelings for you.
All I can advise you to do is think of something else whenever you think of him. Try to make it something that won't lead you back to thinking of him. There's no real way to make your body relinquish emotional ties to someone when you want it to, I mean, you can never control your emotions, and this is the same. As much as you want to, you won't be able to just tell your body "That's it, no more".
I'm afraid that as convenient as that would be, unfortunately it doesn't work that way.
Dreams you can't do anything about, but it's always alright to fantasize about someone even if you can't have them. Remember, fantasies don't hurt anybody. Unless of course you fantasize about hurting people =P
But yeah. Don't get too worked up about this, it's perfectly normal to take a lot of time to move on from someone, especially if you had/have rather strong feelings for them.
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