About a year ago i met this guy. I have such strong feelings for him. Hes all i think about all day long. Well i used to work with him and saw him maybe 3 times a week and for maybe about an hour each day. Well i havent seen or spoken to him in about 3 weeks. And i probly wont be for a long time because he quit. Well this past week i have been having dreams about him. And in these dreams hes holding me, kissing me, and all that good stuff. And as stupid as it sounds these dreams are causing me to think about him even more and it hurts because i can Never have him. i need alot of help with this and nothing is working i have talked to friends about this and alot of them say that hes on my mind for a reason. But whats the reason?
Additional info, added Tuesday September 26 2006, 7:24 pm: if your going to tell me i need to get over him atleast tell me how.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Tuesday September 26 2006, 7:18 pm: Well of course you're going to be dreaming and thinking about him! You have really strong feelings for this guy, you even said so yourself. And the fact that he's gone is going to cause you to be saddened and be thinking about him more because before you got to at least see him a couple of times so you didn't have to dream/think of him as much.
It's just because you probably really still like him, and you really miss him, and you want you guys to get together and be a couple. Or at least him be hugging you and like you and everything.
I know you didn't ask , but if you really do miss him alot, try finding out his number or his myspace or something and try contacting him and talking to him. Just let him know that since he quit work you've been all lonely with nobody to talk to ( and maybe add a laugh at the end to sound all jokey ). And then maybe suggest a hang out to possibly rekindle a friendship and catch up on what's been happening with the both of you guys in the past 3 weeks.
lexusm answered Tuesday September 26 2006, 3:57 pm: i think the reason is because you really love him but you have to let go and move on sista girl so pray and ask god to help you more! from your friend lexus [ lexusm's advice column | Ask lexusm A Question ]
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