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Boyfriend Dilemma
(I am 16 and female) I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about nine months now.We have dated in the past, but it didn't really work out then. Him and I fight all the time. Barely a day goes by where we do not fight. It's like I am always doing something to make him mad. Sometimes he even gets mad if I am smiling. (He thinks another guy makes me smile) He has never been abusive. It's just that it's always like nothing I do makes him happy. He isn't really sensitive and he blames me for most of the fights. I've tried braking up with him, but he always talks me out of it. I really love him, but I can't help but think I would be alot better without him. He always says I don't talk enough (I'm not a big talker) and that I don't show him that I care. I know I do, but recently I had broken a promise I made to him (I told him I would quit cutting myself) and he didn't even try to help. He was just like "I don't trust you anymore." and got all pissed off. I know I have a problem, but he didn't even try to help at all. It's like he doesn't even care. I really need some help with my relationship.
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Break up with him. If you guys can't go a da without quarrling over little things, he's not worth it. He's bringing your mood down by criticizing and blaming oyu for a lot of unreasonable and selfish stuff.
He is going out with you for you and not for a talking buddy. He should know that you care about him if you stayed with him for so long. He, my dear is the one showing no respect or care fo you.
He goes and gets pissed at you for a promise you broke...well he broke it too. He promised to help you yet he didnt. If he truely loves you and wants to be with you, you'd be happy right now. Not being criticized at. You wouldn't be having any doubts at all, yet you're seeking advice. He should've helped you yet he doesnt and gets mad.
He my dear is the one who needs a reality check. The world does NOT revolve around him. He needs to start showing respect and care for you but he seems like he isn't going to anytime soon.
You should break up with him. If he tries to talk you out of it, just set the facts right in front of him. He wasn't there to help you. He criticizes you. He puts you down. He gets mad at you for unreasonable reasons. He doesn't show respect or care for you. Yet he expects so much from you yet nothing makes him happy while you're sitting there taking in all his nonsense. Just make it short. Meet him up. Just say I don't see the point in us going out. I'm breaking up with you and you will not talk me out of it. I'm sick of being pushed around like a worthless piece of junk. I've tried to make this work while you sat there doing nothing about it and blocking everything out.
And just leave. If he does try to talk you out, don't listen to it. Think of how rude he's been to you and how selfish.
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