hey teza! :] let me start out by saying \\\"danng girlly urr s0o g0urgess..i wish i l0oked like ya! hehe\\\" < that came from my heart. okay so here is my question! well i like 2 guys.. but im nto sure which one i like more. so theres this boy that goes to my school. he`s always looking at me and my friend said that when we were in the lunch line he was right infrnt of me and was looking at me for a minute or so i didn`t notice because i was talkingg to my friend. well anyway hes always looking at me in class like every 2 minutes and he smiles at me and trys to show off infront of me , i have a feeling he likes me but i`m not sure , do you think he likes me? i dont usually ever really talk to him so do you think its a good chouce to go otu with him..or something?
okay so heres the other guy i like. he goes to another school..& we mostley talk on the computer but we hang out sumtimes ive known him ever since back in the day like he is my bestfriend and i can tell him anything! i call him sometimes and we talk on the phone , our parents are friends and stuff so it would be akward if we ever went out.. i dont know its just because we are bosnian Lol and the parents are weird about it..ok well like this guy he is always there for me. and like if we get in a fight he`ll be like Oh my god im so sorry and like if i make a mistak and like get mad at him he`ll be like Oh my god please forgive me! and all this and he says \\\"i love you\\\" or Love ya lots all the time! and stuff! and like idont know do you think he likes me?.. and do you think i should go out with him?
baisically..which one do you think i should go out with? i am 13 and the first guy is 13 or like about to be 13 and the second guy is turning 14 in a couple months..
sorry if this is too long! but thanks for the advice!
Additional info, added Monday September 18 2006, 9:11 pm: **by the way ur gourgess<333. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Monday September 18 2006, 11:04 pm: Aw, you're so sweet but you shouldn't wish to look like me because I'm sure you're very gorgeous. =]
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Having a thing for 2 guys can be so hard and complicated so I know how you feel. Just because the first guy is always looking at you and such doesn't give you a good enough reason to actually go out with him. It seems like he could like you but it's hard to tell if he likes you just because he looks at you a lot. You should talk to him and just see how both of you feel about each other.
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You seem to like this other guy a lot more than the first one. & honestly, I do think he likes you. Eather that or he thinks of you as a really good friend. Have you ever actually talked to this guy about having a relationship and such. I know what you mean about being akward with the parents and such. Foreign parents are weird about stuff like that and they'll tease you about it lol. I can't tell you who you should go out with though. If I were you, I'd go for the second guy but that's just my opinion. You need to think about this and figure out exactly what you want and then see where things go. If both of you like each other, you shouldn't go out RIGHT away. Give it some time. Hang out and talk a lot more. Then, when you really want a boyfriend, go for it. Just be careful because no matter how sweet a guy can be, they can turn out to be jerks. Good luck hun. & don't apologize for it being long lol, I don't mind. Hopefully I helped. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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