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i am really confused
hi! first of all, i want to thank you for the advice you gave me..
now, the crush "blues" are gone.. we're getting closer everyday.. earlier today, we had fun moments and lots of laughs. iT's just so frustrating because he has everything i want in a guy but he still have feelings for his ex-girlfriend. Their relationship ended last year. Now should be the right time for him to move right? coz it's been so long and the Ex had moved on already. Should i keep him? What should i do to help him get over the GIRL and let him realize that i am just here! right infront of him!....
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I'm very sorry, but I don't know which question you're referring to. However, I will try to answer as best I can based on the information you have given.
Unfortunately, there isn't a lot that you can do to help him get over his ex. I'm sorry, I wish I could be more helpful but the truth is, some people take longer to get over exes that others. It depends on how much they felt for them and how long they were together, as well as how sensitive and emotionally involved they were in the relationship.
Has he told you he still has feelings for his ex? If so, I think maybe you need to talk to him about it and just lay the truth of the situation out the way you have with me. Explain to him that you know he cares about her still but he has to stop moping about it and move on with his life or he's going to miss great opportunities with other girls that will care about him without even realising it.
With any luck, that will lead to a comment like "Oh yeah, and who's gonna want to go out with me?", at which point you can leap in with the old "I would" and see what happens.
If he really can't let his feelings for this girl go, it's up to you whether you want to risk trying to sustain a relationship with him or try to move on while he works on getting over his ex. Personally I would recommend the latter, as relationships are hard enough without the emotional baggage but I would still recommend, whatever you do, that you tell him how you feel and let him decide from there whether he is ready to move on.
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