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Overprotective
ok, so ive been wit my bf for about a year and he recently became very overprotective and jealous if i hang out with other guys..even if its with all my girfriends...like for example tonite i was wit my girls and this uy called us asing to hang out we went for abotu 10 mins and then left, he found otu and accused me of lying to him becuase i told him we woldnt be hanging out with guys tonite wen i had no idea that we would evn be there..bottom line is...how can i get him to stop being so ovverrprotective? this is an ongoing issue
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You can't change him, but you can change how you deal with him. Don't give him the power of answering or promising him things that could change or that you don't feel are his business. I can guarentee you that he does not tell you every detail that he demands from you. Usually jealous people are the ones with more to hide, by the way. He has an insecurity and it may always be there throughout his life. You can't change it. You just have to decide how much of it and for how long you will stand for it.
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iM HAViNG THis SAME EXACT PR0BLEM. iTS A TRUST iSUSSUE. WELL JUST SiT HiM D0WN AND TELL HiM H0W Y0U FEEL TELL HiM Y0U D0NT LiKE iT. 0VERPR0TECTiVE GUYS CAN GiVE Y0U AL0T 0F PR0BLEMS. JUST TELL HiM THAT Y0U D0NT LiKE HiM BEiNG LIKE THAT.
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Hmm. I think you need to sit your boyfriend down. This isn't him being overprotective, this is him not trusting you. Let him know that if he doesnt trust you, there are going to be worse problems with this relationship. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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