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I like my friends ex boyfriend
I like my friends Ex-boyfriend(Jake).Tracy and Jake were going out for nine months and then summer came . . . one day before summer was over I was thinking 'What if Jake doesnt come back?' I dont know why I thought that but it made me cry. Then I went to school and noticed that Jake was not there and when i got home I cried my eyes off. Then on the 2nd day I saw him and I got really happy. Then I started noticing that Jake and Tracy were not around eachother anymore. I asked my best friend (that is really close to Tracy) Beccy if they were still going out and she said that he broke up with her. I asked her why he did that and She said that it was because he was going to transfer schools. Now I think that i might have a chance but Jake might still have feelings for Tracy(I know she still has feelings for him), and that might affect the relationship that I have with Tracy. Me and him were friends but then we kind of lost touch so now we see eachother and its a simple 'hi'. Sometimes we dont even say anything to eachother It's like we get shy when we see eachother.
Rachel
15/female/U.S.
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Well, the most advice I can give here is if you don't want to ruin the friendship you have with your friend Tracy, then I suggest not making any advances towards him. ESPECIALLY if she still likes him. I always say,"Chicks before dicks."
There is still a possibility the two of them will wind up together again if they're still liking eachother and didn't break up for any real reason like the relationship being bad.
What I suggest you do is just keep talking to him more and making him laugh and everything and just do what you do. And give it time. If him and Tracy don't talk that much anyways, after awhile she might get over him and start liking other guys, which then leaves him open for you. But if that does happen, I suggest going to her first and asking her if it's ok if you date him, because even though she's over him, she just might be uncomfortable with her friend dating her ex.
But, basic advice of this whole thing: If she likes him, don't go after him, cause it'll only mess up the friendship that you and Tracy have, and that's more important than any guy.
I hope I helped.
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